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Empowerment and Support: Navigating Towards Safety and Healing from Relationship Abuse

 The Illusion of Choice
The Illusion of Choice

How controlling relationships narrow freedom, without actually closing the door.

When the Truth Feels Safer to Type
When the Truth Feels Safer to Type

Virtual Disclosure, Reproductive Coercion, and the Spaces We Create for Honesty

Helping Someone You Love
Helping Someone You Love

How to support someone in a controlling or abusive relationship without causing unintentional harm

"Help Is Available" and 9 Other Victim-Blaming Messages
"Help Is Available" and 9 Other Victim-Blaming Messages

"Just leave." "Why didn't you tell someone?" Ten familiar messages about domestic abuse that quietly shift the blame from systems onto survivors.

Why Can't You Just Move On?
Why Can't You Just Move On?

The misguided "advice", how it's wrong and why we can't move on until the past is settled.

 Relationship Abuse and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
Relationship Abuse and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction

The link between trauma and pelvic health is well-documented in clinical settings but is only now becoming a part of the conversation in the domestic violence space.

 Pattern Blindness
Pattern Blindness

One of the most painful experiences for people living with coercive control is realizing that others often cannot see what is happening — even when the signs feel obvious to the person living inside it.

Who Am I After Abuse? The Three Faces of Identity
Who Am I After Abuse? The Three Faces of Identity

Lost your sense of self after an abusive relationship? How to integrate who you were, who you're becoming, and the false version of you others were told.

 Women's History
Women's History

There is a shadow side to Women’s History Month. It is a history not of triumph, but of tactical erasure.

How to Document Coercive Control: 5 Steps for Custody
How to Document Coercive Control: 5 Steps for Custody

A trauma-informed, step-by-step guide to documenting coercive control for custody: what to save, what to write in each entry, and how to show the pattern.

Intolerance of Uncertainty After Abuse: How to Cope
Intolerance of Uncertainty After Abuse: How to Cope

Why uncertainty can feel unsafe after emotional abuse or coercive control, the signs to look for, and four gentle ways to live with not knowing.

The Hidden Crisis That Costs Corporations Billions
The Hidden Crisis That Costs Corporations Billions

The economic burden of domestic violence and what it takes to change the truth. Spoiler alert - change requires action.

 Meet the App!
Meet the App!

Now access Aimee instantly and privately from your mobile home screen. Save yourself a trip to the app store and your user information from download records.

 "No Evidence of Abuse"
"No Evidence of Abuse"

If a parent is unable to meet a child’s needs because communication is being intentionally disrupted, that is not an accident. That is sabotage.

How to Communicate With a High-Conflict Ex: BIFF Examples
How to Communicate With a High-Conflict Ex: BIFF Examples

Short, calm, court-ready ways to reply to a high-conflict co-parent: BIFF responses, why not to JADE, boundary scripts and real before-and-after examples.

Daughters are Disbelieved
Daughters are Disbelieved

We’re on the same team helping expose something that has been hidden for too long: the divide between who trusted the system, and who never could.

 Covert Abuse - Hidden in Plain Sight
Covert Abuse - Hidden in Plain Sight

Both covert and overt abusers seek control, superiority, and emotional dominance. The difference lies in their methods and how the harm is experienced.

Why Family Court Misses Abuse and Coercive Control
Why Family Court Misses Abuse and Coercive Control

Why family courts so often miss coercive control and post-separation abuse, how abusers use the process itself, and what can help when court fails you.

What Is Trauma-Informed AI? 5 Principles and a Checklist
What Is Trauma-Informed AI? 5 Principles and a Checklist

What makes AI safe for survivors of trauma and abuse: 5 principles from a University of Queensland toolkit, plus questions to ask before trusting a chatbot.

Why It's So Hard to Tell Anyone About Abuse
Why It's So Hard to Tell Anyone About Abuse

Fear of not being believed keeps many survivors silent for years. Why disclosure is so hard, and why many people find it easier to start by typing.

 Family Law Attorneys
Family Law Attorneys

Aimee Says helps family law attorneys support their clients, uncover harmful, hidden forms of abuse and win cases.

College
College

Relationship abuse is prevalent in college aged adults, and the impacts can be devastating. Every college student should know about Aimee, the AI companion for people experiencing relationship abuse.

 How to Talk to your Kids
How to Talk to your Kids

For some, the only way to end abuse is requires living in a domestic violence shelter. When there are children involved, it's hard to know how to respond to their questions.

 What is stalking?
What is stalking?

In the journey toward healing and empowerment, survivors of domestic violence navigate through various forms of abuse, with stalking standing out as both pervasive and particularly menacing. Stalking, a term that often evokes images of shadowed figures and unmarked letters, is, in reality, a complex pattern of behavior rooted in obsession and the need for control. This article aims to shed light on the nature of stalking, its impact on survivors, and the steps towards safety and recovery.

 What is Psychological Abuse?
What is Psychological Abuse?

In the journey of healing and empowerment, recognizing and defining psychological abuse is a pivotal step for survivors. Psychological abuse, a form of abuse that's less visible yet profoundly impactful, can leave deep emotional scars. This article aims to clarify what psychological abuse is, and equally important, what it isn't, providing a foundation of understanding for survivors.

 What is Financial Abuse?
What is Financial Abuse?

Financial abuse is a hidden form of domestic violence where control is exerted through financial means. It traps victims by restricting their financial independence, making it hard to break free. Learn the signs, seek help, and support survivors.

 Digital Abuse
Digital Abuse

Digital abuse, a pervasive issue in today's tech-savvy society, involves the misuse of technology to control, harass, or intimidate a partner. This type of abuse spans various forms, including cyberstalking, unauthorized access to personal devices, and manipulation via digital communications. Shockingly, statistics reveal that 1 in 4 people have fallen victim to digital abuse, illustrating its widespread impact. Furthermore, the prevalence of revenge porn, a distressing form of digital abuse, affects 1 in 12 people, highlighting the urgent need for awareness and solutions to combat these digital violations of privacy and safety.

 What is Emotional Abuse?
What is Emotional Abuse?

Emotional abuse, a form of domestic violence, is often the silent shadow that trails its more visible counterparts, physical and sexual abuse. Unlike bruises or broken bones, the scars of emotional abuse are etched deep within the psyche, making them harder to recognize and, consequently, to heal from. This article aims to shed light on the insidious nature of emotional abuse within intimate relationships, offering insight, understanding, and a beacon of hope for those who find themselves ensnared in its grasp.

 What is Sexual Abuse?
What is Sexual Abuse?

Sexual abuse within domestic violence is a deeply complex and sensitive subject. For many survivors, recognizing and acknowledging these experiences is an important step towards healing and empowerment. This article aims to shed light on the nature of sexual abuse in domestic relationships, offering support, understanding, and resources for those who have lived through such experiences.

 What is Physical Abuse?
What is Physical Abuse?

Physical abuse in the context of domestic violence refers to deliberate acts of physical harm or injury perpetrated by one partner against another within a domestic setting. This can include hitting, slapping, punching, kicking, burning, or using weapons. It is a form of control that seeks to intimidate and dominate the victim.